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Tempted?

And no temptation is irresistible. You can trust God to keep the temptation from becoming so strong that you can’t stand up against it.  (I Corinthians 10:13 LB)

 

 Years ago I read a story that offers some insight into temptation.  An antelope and a lion entered a diner and took a booth near the window.  When the waiter approached, the antelope said, “I’ll have a bowl of hay and a side order of radishes.”

            “And what will your friend have?”

            “Nothing,” replied the antelope.

            The waiter persisted. “Isn’t he hungry?”

            “Hey, if he were hungry,” said the antelope, “would I be sitting here?”

Temptation is a powerful force in our life.  If the temptation is strong enough, even a friend can “eat” a friend.

There  are a lot of temptations which can make it difficult for those trying to follow Jesus.  I just read today about a study on will power:

 Dr. Loran Nordgren, a senior lecturer at Northwestern University’s Kellogg School of Management in Chicago, found “we tend to overestimate how much self-control we will have against temptation when we’re not in the ‘heat of the moment.’”… Dr. Nordgren warned that “Those who are most confident about their self-control are the most likely to give in to temptation.” His conclusion was that a key element in overcoming temptation is simply humility.  Recognizing our weaknesses and avoiding situations where we are tempted.

Some other important ways which enable resistance are:

  • A definite commitment to God. (priorities)
  • Absorbing scripture, which the Bible calls the “sword of the
    Spirit” (“Your word have I hid in my heart.”)
  • Accountability of a Christian community.  Close
    relationships with other followers of Jesus.

  Temptation does not lessen with spiritual growth and health.  It becomes more subtle, sophisticated and powerful.  But we also have greater power and resources to overcome it.

It Took a Miracle

“‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh.  Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”   -Matthew 19:5-6

In a few days, my wife, Alana and I will celebrate the day last year when we stood  before God and a community of believers and promised to be husband and wife until “death do us part.”  Now that I think about it, it was not last year at all, but it was 50 years ago, 1963!  It only seems like a short time.

Seriously, what does it take to make it to 50 years?  And when I answer that question, for us, I know it took a miracle of God’s grace.  For there could hardly have been two people more different.  Alana has said that hardly a day passed that we didn’t disagree about something.  And sometimes those disagreements have, “to put it mildly,” been painful.   We have faced life and death together, joys and sorrows, health and sickness.  There has been conflict.  Oh, how there has been conflict.  As I said to her not long ago, “we sometimes drive each other crazy.”  You get the point.

What there has never been, for either of us, is doubt that we love and are committed to each other “til death do us part.”  We know and understand that both of us are imperfect people and that forgiveness is at the heart of any close human relationship (also between God and any person).

To put it in perspective and so you understand; I wish we could have 50 more years.  I love you, Alana.  Thank you for what you have given and are giving to me.  And thank you, Lord for making it possible.

 

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